This is a conversation between Arjun and Sejal.
They are discussing on the need of a Well-wisher in Sanatana Dharma.
Hello Sejal.
Arjun, have you ever thought about what makes a person truly revered?
That's a profound question, Sejal. I believe it’s about their character. When someone's face radiates purity and joy, when they are inherently kind, speak sweetly, and act in ways that benefit others, they naturally earn reverence, don't you think?
Absolutely. Life throws so many challenges at us—health issues, financial troubles, family disputes, and more. It's tough to face them alone. Seeking advice from elders or skilled counsellors becomes crucial. How do you cope with life's challenges?
I've found that talking to trusted friends and family helps a lot. But many people believe they can handle everything on their own. They see asking for help as a weakness. They claim that talking doesn’t solve problems, which is such a misconception. Without proper guidance, problems can escalate, leading to mental anguish.
Exactly. Consulting a well-wisher in tough situations is invaluable. Consider family disputes, low self-esteem, fertility issues, depression, grief, trauma—these are all serious conditions that can have profound repercussions if left unaddressed. Have you ever sought advice from a professional counsellor?
I have, and it was a game-changer. It's not just about solving problems. Seeking advice can also aid in constructive life advancement. Professional counsellors are accessible nowadays in various fields like education, career, and health. They help plan endeavors, anticipate risks, and avoid detrimental habits.
That’s great to hear. When overwhelmed by challenges, we might struggle to assess our abilities and make sound decisions. In such times, advice from family elders or friends who know our strengths can be a beacon of hope. The support a new mother receives from her parents while caring for a newborn is a prime example.
That's so true. And it reminds me of the Rāmāyaṇa. Remember the story of Hanuman's self-doubt?
Oh yes, when the Vānaras, led by Jāmbavān, Hanuman, and Angada, were searching for Sīta. They reached the ocean, and Jāmbavān had to remind Hanuman of his divine potential, which he had forgotten due to a sage's curse. Jāmbavān’s encouragement helped Hanuman realize his latent powers.
Exactly. Once Hanuman realized his strength, he leapt across the ocean, found Sīta, and returned with crucial information. The story underscores that even the mightiest among us may need guidance and encouragement to realize our full potential, especially during tough times.
It's a timeless lesson. Seeking and providing support isn’t a sign of weakness but a testament to our interconnected strength. We should never hesitate to reach out for help and offer it when needed. Do you think our society is becoming more accepting of seeking help?
I think it’s improving, but there’s still a long way to go. The stigma around mental health and seeking help is gradually diminishing, but it requires continued effort and awareness. Normalizing these conversations is key.
Agreed. It’s also essential to teach the younger generation that seeking advice is a strength, not a weakness. They should feel empowered to reach out when they need support. The more we talk about it, the more we can break down those barriers.
And it’s not just about serious issues. Even for everyday challenges, having someone to talk to can make a big difference. Sometimes, a fresh perspective is all it takes to find a solution.
Absolutely. It’s about building a support network and being there for each other. Life’s journey is so much richer when we navigate it together.